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Many of us hold traumatic memories. Through no fault of our own, we may have experienced physical or sexual abuse, or emotional abuse or neglect. We may have been raised by a parent struggling with alcohol dependence, or may have been exposed to other forms of trauma. We may not realize it, but undergoing trauma can cause long term changes in our neurobiology. It can affect the way we react to situations, how our brain and body process information, and how likely we are to crave alcohol. It’s important to first understand the effects of trauma and how we can work through painful experiences. These are powerful steps towards changing our relationship with alcohol, and discovering ways to heal.
How trauma affects the brain
When faced with traumatic situations the “fight or flight” glands in our brain, the hypothalamus and the amygdala, trigger a natural and protective response. The amygdala produces more adrenaline, and the hypothalamus gland increases heart rate, blood pressure, body temperature, and muscle tension. When faced with future stressful situations, the brain is more likely to trigger an intense fight-or-flight response. This is because after being subjected to trauma, we become more likely to perceive and react to new stressors in the same way.
Painful memories and biochemical changes resulting from trauma can make us more susceptible to alcohol dependence. While this response to trauma is completely natural and valid, we each still hold a great capacity to cultivate new ways of coping.
Why we may seek alcohol to cope with trauma
Traumatic experiences can change the neurobiological patterns of the brain. It can lead to a long-term increase in stress hormones, which is why survivors often experience heightened anxiety and depression. Trauma can also cause a decreased level of dopamine in the brain, which is commonly referred to as the “feel-good” neurotransmitter.
The use of alcohol can provide a temporary relief from these feelings. When drinking, dopamine levels increase in the brain, and we feel better — for a short while. The brain releases dopamine when we experience pleasure, and this reward-center of the brain is especially sensitive to alcohol. Trauma survivors are also more likely to have a stronger reaction to dopamine. As we continue to use alcohol to cope, the brain gets conditioned to using alcohol for relief. Over time, the amygdala and the hypothalamus begin to actually recognize alcohol as a necessary means of survival, and crave alcohol to soothe difficult feelings.
It’s important to remember that alcohol use disorder (AUD) is a medical condition, and we are not to blame for how our past experiences have affected us. We can also understand that AUD is treatable with evidence-based medical care, and that with support, we can find new, meaningful ways to cope and live full and joyful lives.
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Why Shame Arises, And How To Overcome It
The brain naturally blames itself for experiences that are out of its control. Although we are never to blame for undergoing trauma, feelings of shame and guilt can still arise. These reactions can be difficult to manage on our own, especially amongst the other painful effects of trauma. Therefore, it is completely understandable that we would drink to get some relief from all of these feelings. Understanding that trauma affects our brain, and can generate a craving out of our control, may help release some of those feelings of shame around alcohol use. Drinking can work to soothe pain at first, but eventually creates a harmful, unhealthy cycle that causes us to drink even more, without relieving underlying stressors. At Monument, we’re here to help you find new ways of managing painful emotions and memories, free of any judgement or shame.
What Recovery Looks Like
You can change your relationship with alcohol and simultaneously heal from trauma. The first step is to recognize that despite the signals in our brain’s reward center, alcohol use is not a sustainable coping mechanism. Acknowledge that previous trauma may have changed the way we react to stress, and made us more likely to seek alcohol for relief. These situations happened to us, but do not define us. We also have to remind ourselves that drinking is a temporary habit, not a reflection of our character. You are not alone in navigating this. There’s professional care and a compassionate community to provide you safe and loving support.
One of the greatest gifts we can give ourselves is gaining clarity with the support of a therapist. Previous traumatic experiences become stored in the subconscious of the brain as memories and images. These memories are often avoided so that we can function in the present without the weight of the past. A trained therapist can help us process these memories so that they no longer have power over us. Therapy can also help us regulate emotions, restructure thought patterns, and develop new coping mechanisms.
Meeting with a physician can be a pivotal step in recovering from alcohol use disorder. Together, you can discuss medication to stop drinking, and develop a care plan tailored to your needs and goals. Just like any other medical condition, medical treatment is an effective tool for recovering from alcohol use disorder.
Monument offers free, therapist moderated alcohol support groups on many topics related to changing your relationship with alcohol. Join a live session to share, hear from others, learn about new resources, and practice accountability. You can also engage in our anonymous online Community at any time. Connecting with others can make a huge difference. You are not alone in this, and there’s an entire community of people who are ready to support you.
Traumatic memories can be incredibly difficult to live with and no two experiences of trauma are alike. While we may not have all the words to describe or understand how trauma has affected us yet, we can begin by taking one step every day towards seeking peace, safety, and recovery. Our past experiences do not define us. All we can ask of ourselves is to go at our own pace, and accept all the support and love we deserve along the way.
Disclaimer: Our articles and resources do not constitute clinical or licensed therapy or other health care services. If you need counseling or therapy services please contact a licensed provider. If this is a medical emergency, call 911.
2010-2021, Harvard Health Medical School, Harvard University. https://www.health.harvard.edu/topics/addiction
Sources: Kathleen T. Brady, M.D., Ph.D., and Sudie E. Back, Ph.D. https://pubs.niaaa.nih.gov/publications/arcr344/408-413.htm